Wolfepack News

Never, ever, ever

2010-08-05T21:51:00.000-04:00

I saw this shirt on a very popular retailer's web site the other day and just had to do a post on it.

Some people might look at this shirt and laugh; but in our family, and I'm sure in many of yours, there is nothing funny about this statement - especially when the shirt is made for little girls. I remember when the worst statement a young daughter could display was 'Spoiled Rotten'. This statement is definitely disrespectful and somewhat emasculating. To suggest that father's are not capable of being strong enough to own their positions as dads by displaying the thought on a little girl's shirt is a little shocking to me. I know there are those father's who answer to their girls - otherwise no one would have come up with this caption. But not in this household. No way, no how!

The New Bathroom

2010-07-21T15:23:00.000-04:00

It turned out so well and I only wish I had the picture-taking ability to capture it just right! But these will have to do. Many thanks to the hard work from Brian and Dad!

That Girl

2010-07-21T15:13:00.001-04:00

Aubrey is almost two years old and I don't know where the time has gone. She is such a cute little stinker and I have to document what she's about before she grows any bigger and I forget. It's so true that you remember everything about your first child and struggle to pay attention enough to remember what the second one does, what their personality is, etc. While Aubrey and Ellie are somewhat similar, they definitely have their differences. Ellie was walking and talking at 12 months. Aubrey JUST started walking; but has taken off and is just now increasing her vocabulary. Her favorite things to say are:

Sees-uh (sister)
Thank ooh - she knows exactly when to say it, too!
Why - this means I want to watch Super Why!
Baby
Dogdog - her favorite thing - as in we can't lose it ever or we'll be in big trouble
Mama & Dada
Snow - she wrinkles her nose and says this very nasal-y. Not sure where this came from!
Cerul - cereal

Aubrey loves to play pretend with her animals and baby dolls. This is way earlier than Ellie enjoyed this type of play. She pretends that she's feeding them and makes a clicking sound with her tongue and teeth as if she were eating. Yesterday, Dogdog was attempting to eat upside down! She also does this when she gives her baby dolls a bottle to drink. We go through the motions of burping and rocking too. She just loves it! She'll take them for walks around the house in the baby strollers with sees-uh by her side.

Aubrey is quite the little dancer too! While Ellie is now enrolled in dance lessons, her boogie-ing genes kicked in a little later. Aubrey dances to just about anything - you just have to get her started. Her favorite things to sing are 'La Lu La' - she just sings this when she's happy. She also tries to sing Jesus Loves Me with us at bedtime now.

She loves playing with her sissy and Ellie loves Aubrey so much too. They really play well together most of the time: coloring, playing kitchen, dolls, playing in their room, etc. Ellie loves teaching Aubrey new things and really is a helper (and sometimes a little mother). They especially love being in a room together now, which is so sweet and bound to deepen their relationship.

Gotta have an Ellie picture. I'll come back with another post about her later - she's amazing!

This one too!

2010-07-13T11:41:00.000-04:00

Also from last year, this picture will go on display too! I wish I had the energy for beach trips and pictures this year! This one is from our Labor Day trip last year, which we will miss again this year. The two years we've missed it have been due to our fall babies!

Beach Babies

2010-07-13T10:55:00.000-04:00

I LOVE this picture from last year. What joy! This is going in the girl's new bathroom. More pics to come!

Under the Sea...in our bathroom!

2010-07-06T09:08:00.000-04:00

In our family, and probably most others I know, new babies bring more home improvement projects. Of course we are redoing Ellie's room of five years to fit a little boy, we've moved the girls into bunk beds in Aubrey's room (now for the two of them and they're doing great) and we've finally tackled the 'guest/kids' bathroom upstairs. It was the last room to have lovely black, gray and pink wallpaper in it and it was time to go. When I saw this set at Target, I knew that was it! I hesitated on the pirate octopus but Brian said we had to have it for Ethan, so I went back and got it.

Dad came over to help install beadboard and paint this weekend and it turned out great (well, it's not quite finished but close enough)! I'll post pictures when it's done. He and Brian only made like 20 trips to Lowe's to get various things throughout the weekend. I sure hope one of those receipts lands us that $2500 gift card they say it will!

Baby Boy

2010-07-06T08:48:00.001-04:00

Poor thing - I keep calling him Baby Boy but he does have a name! It's actually kind of endearing - we're so used to everything being girlie, that it's fun to say 'boy'. Ellie keeps saying 'Mommy, he has a name!' And he does...

Ethan Robert Wolfe

And here's what the room may look like...We painted navy this weekend and it looks really good - thanks Brian and Dad! And Auntie Rachel picked up the striped sheets for us in Atlanta - thank you!

Pictures...

2010-07-06T06:37:00.000-04:00

It was a great year...

2010-06-15T08:05:00.000-04:00

Ellie and Aubrey both had wonderful year's in school this year. I am happy for the summer, though and thankful Aubrey doesn't have to go to school next year, although we were very blessed by her teachers and her school this year.

Here's Aubrey with Mrs. Venita and Mrs. Lillian on the last day!

And here's Ellie with her whole class (courtesy of Susan Mullins)

My First Dance Recital

2010-06-13T07:21:00.000-04:00

Ellie has been in dance all year - I probably told you about that back in September. It starts then and culminates with a huge recital at the end of May. Ellie did great all year and developed some new little friendships (and I did too)! While her class was tap and ballet, they only did one routine, which was ballet. I was secretly thankful for this because she got to wear the most adorable little blue costume and dance to the sweetest song dedicated to mommies. Meredith, my good friend and mom to Ava and Ella, who are Ellie and Aubrey's ages and good little friends themselves, managed to find the lyrics:

Moms are special people
They hug you all the time
They help you do a lot of things
You might be scared to try
They take us to the playground
The movies and the zoo
Mom, we're really lucky
Cause we've got you

Oh, Mother, we need you every day
We think we'll keep you
Oh, Mother, we love you
Even more than songs can say

You're funny and you're smart
You finish what you start
If we could, we'd elect you
President of the Mothers
No matter where you go
We hope it always shows...
You're the very best Mom we know

Oh, Mother, we need you every day
We think we'll keep you
Oh, Mother, we love you
Even more than songs can say

You're the very best,
specialest person in the world

A cute memory and funny observations

2010-06-10T22:51:00.002-04:00

Wow - it has been a while since I last updated our blog! I have honestly not thought about it much at all in the past six months; but now that I'm not working anymore, the importance of preserving the memories and sharing our life with you resumes. I will do a 'catch you up' post later; but this one is so I remember these things later.

The First Wolfe Girls Slumber Party:
Ellie loves getting Aubrey up when she wakes from her slumber - whether in the morning or from naps. She greets her by herself and gets in the crib to play with her. I have learned that although Aubrey may fuss at first, if I just wait a minute, they'll soon be laughing and then quiet play time ensues - music to a mommy's ears! The other day I walked in and Ellie had put as many bows in Aubrey's hair as she could (Aubrey loves bows in her hair!)

When it was Aubrey's nap time yesterday, Ellie said she wanted to take a nap with her. Now, Ellie has not napped in FOREVER, so when she suggests a nap I do not put up a fight! Ellie attempted to sleep on the floor and Aubrey was in her crib. I left the room...no crying from the little one - so I continued with my tasks. Soon, the sounds of little girls playing when they're supposed to be sleeping filled my ears with joy. I didn't care that they weren't sleeping - I know the talking and playing happens first and the sleep later. But they never slept, and that was okay with me. I'm happy for the bonding they are doing. It reminded me of Amy and I sharing a room - which Aubrey and Ellie will be doing by the end of the summer! That was their first slumber party!

Funny Observations:
You know, by the time you get to the third pregnancy (and I'm sure any subsequent pregnancies, although praise God, I won't know anything about that) you've heard everything anyone has to say about you being pregnant. It starts with 'Your life is about to change' and progresses to 'Oh, boys are different' or 'Your hands are gonna be full'. Yes, they will be full - with precious cargo that I wouldn't trade for anything. Yes, boys are different...Really? They're more active...Really? I actually know some girls who are just as active (although not mine!) I'm married to one. My dad is one. I have two brothers. I know BOYS ARE DIFFERENT. God made them different - I know this and I am THANKFUL for this. Because this means a little less whining and a lot less emotions! I welcome that change. 'You're due in September? That means you'll go through the summer - ugh!' Really? Is that what that means? Sometimes I don't say anything while other times, I let them know it's not my first time to the rodeo. I'm glad I'm going through the summer. That means I get to wear flip flops and tank tops and go swimming and sit under fans. It also means we'll have huge family birthday parties and that will be a special tradition. You know, if it were socially acceptable, I may look at people like they have two heads sometimes. In my better judgment, I try to be gracious in responding:)

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Happy New Year!

2010-01-10T09:02:00.000-05:00

We had a great Christmas with the girls and Brian's family down in Central Florida. It was topped off with Ellie's first trip to Disney! She had a blast and so did we. Can't wait to do it again! Enjoy the pictures!

I enjoyed making them these cute outfits with Michael Miller's Christmas Trees fabric:)

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She LOVED the Teapots! They were her favorite, along with Small World,

Pooh and meeting the Princesses:)

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We're Back!

2009-11-18T16:12:00.001-05:00

I'm sure you're beginning to wonder if we've fallen off the face of the earth or think our life has nothing to report. Sometimes I do feel like that and feel blessed that I have nothing crazy to report; but at the same time I'm missing opportunities to report on life as it happens each day. That's okay - two months of no posting is nothing to feel guilty about, right? I had to take a little break from the blogging world - and I don't even do it near as much as others I know! But the pressure of doing it is sometimes enough to break me down. I'm just being honest. And living life through reading other people's blogs or facebook statuses robs me of living my life and that's what was happening. When you begin to think in terms of 'I've gotta blog about that' and 'Julie is...', there's a little imbalance happening there. Especially when you're not doing taking care of your responsibilities around your world or creating memories for your family. So, I took a hiatus to re-focus on what I should spend my time doing. It has definitely been freeing; but I've got a long way to go!

Enjoy my look back on the past couple of months!

The token pumpkin patch picture. Of course we chose a cloudy day; but at least it wasn't raining!

Ellie was Iridessa for Halloween and wanted her hair braided! So, we sat for an hour and a half and braided her hair. I thought it turned out really cute!

The day after Aubrey's birthday, she finally got her cake! And loved it! We had to cancel her party because Brian and Ellie were sick. We made it up to her, though! See below:

Aubrey's second attempt at a birthday celebration came at the same time as Brian's birthday. We enjoyed Mexican with friends. Aubrey had fried ice cream and Brian had a tequila shot!

And this is my precious baby with her favorite animal in the world. We call him Dog Dog and he has slept with her every night for quite some time. Mom and Tom have it to her; but I don't remember the occasion. I started giving it to her to see if she would adopt a 'lovie' (ellie never did). She loves him alright; but we leave him in bed during the day. Her favorite part? His tag off the back of his left leg! Yet another thing Ellie didn't care for -tags. Aubrey loves them and every time you give her an animal, she turns it around to find the tag. So precious!

Soccer and Birthdays

2009-09-20T08:54:00.004-04:00

Yesterday was a full day! Ellie's birthday, of course; but she also started soccer! She looks so cute in her shorts, tube socks and cleats. Coach Bev is her coach and the founder of Warner Soccer - boy, do we feel lucky to have been placed under her! She said they came over from England 20 years ago and only planned to stay a year; but have now been here for 20! I guess they began Warner Soccer that year because they're celebrating their 20th anniversary this year. She's great with the kids, using all kinds of enticing scenarios such as flying to Disney World and looking for chocolate in Switzerland to get them to perform the drills she wants them to do. We really hope Ellie sticks with it because it is truly fun to watch! You can click on the picture to see more of this fun morning!

Ava, Ainsley and Ellie

After that, we had Ellie's birthday party at Red Elephant, a local pizza grill and the favorite restaurant for Ellie and many of her friends. We're not sure if it's the Red Elephant they see when they walk in or the game room or the pizza; but they love it! Everyone had a great time! Thanks to all of Ellie's friends for joining us and thanks to Red Elephant for a great party!

Dearest Ellie...

2009-09-19T21:22:00.005-04:00

Four years ago today, God blessed us with you, our firstborn! You came into our lives and changed everything! And we are so thankful that He chose to give us someone so sweet, kind, caring, beautiful, intelligent, imaginative and energetic. It has been amazing to see how you've grown and what you've learned over these four short years. We love seeing you dance, do gymnastics and entertain everyone (even when you think no one is watching!). You are a wonderful big sister who loves Aubrey more than we ever imagined possible. We look forward with great anticipation to what God has planned for you and the young lady you will continue to become - but we're not rushing anything! You can stay a little girl for as long as you want;) HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

Quesadillas, It's What's for Dinner

2009-09-15T21:48:00.003-04:00

Do y'all love quesadillas? I do! I love that they're simple and super-quick to make. I love that you can put almost anything in them and have a different flavor every day of the week. I love that they're kind of snacky, which takes care of my snack cravings! And tonight, I loved that they were a great way to get the girls to eat the veggies that otherwise looked like, well, leftover veggies. I used leftover roasted veggies from a couple of nights ago and a bag of cheddar/jack cheese that I've had ever since it was on super sale at least two months ago! I hadn't opened it yet and it was still quite good. For those of you that this may make a little squeamish, the use by date is at the end of the month, so I'm okay;) Of course we had to top them with sour cream and Jack's Salsa from Costco. I couldn't find a good picture or it would have gone here. That stuff is sooo good and so fresh! And, it's got a coupon this month, so if you want some, let me know - there's no limit!!! Our dinner was so yummy tonight, I ate what Ellie couldn't! Oops;)

End of Summer:)

2009-09-14T21:04:00.005-04:00

Labor Day weekend, my family all met up at Grayton Beach (right there with Seaside, Watercolor and that whole awesome area)! We rented a gorgeous house - thanks, sis - and had a blast. David came from Colorado and it was good to see him and chat some. I'm really trying to move more into conversation with my family and not just let it be surface type lingo. It was good to ask David questions about his life out there and where he's headed. Whether or not he has a girlfriend, etc! Jon, on the other hand, has a wonderful girlfriend, Jaime, who is full of life and enjoys every minute with our family. Ellie just loves her and we all love that! Amy and Chris had a good time; but poor Brayden was completely off his schedule, which made their weekend a little more stressful than planned. We can definitely relate! We ate lots of good food, played games, soaked up the sun, chatted and just had a good time together. Jon and Jaime even picked up the grandparents on Sunday and brought them over for lunch and cake for granddaddy's birthday (his is the day after mine!) I think they really enjoyed it!

Mommy Feel Good Moment

2009-08-30T20:19:00.004-04:00

I hope y'all have a bunch of these. I probably have more than I realize; but yesterday was a good one. We were driving home from our day at the beach and Aubrey was crying from exhaustion and not wanting to go to sleep. As we've done many times before, Ellie started singing Jesus Loves Me to her. Then she changed songs and started singing a song we call 'Jesus' that I sing to Ellie many nights - usually when she's scared. Lately I've noticed her really watching my mouth and trying to memorize the words. Well, she did it! And she sang it to Aubrey over and over, even after she was calm. What a sweet spirit and a teachable moment that when we take the time to invest kingdom values in them, they will take root! I learned the song when I was little.

Here are the words:
Jesus, Name above all names,
Beautiful Savior,
Glorious Lord.
Immanuel,
God is with us,
Blessed Redeemer,
Living Word.

And here are some pictures from our day!

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Hope y'all had a great weekend!

AUBREY!!!

2009-08-25T16:04:00.004-04:00

Since there were no pictures of Aubrey in the last post, I had to do an extra post for her. It's hard to believe she's almost 11 months old! Where has the time gone? She's got two teeth and is working on the top two. She's crawling! And pulling up! Since she can get around a little now, she's a little more content to be left on the floor:) She still laughs and smiles at everyone. What a little joy!

Have you missed us?!

2009-08-01T20:13:00.018-04:00

You'll notice the date stamp is wrong. I started writing this almost a month ago! So now it says it's from August 1st; but it's actually today!
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Sorry it's been so long; but we've been busy around here. It seems that I can't keep on top of everything at once, so this time it was the blog that went by the wayside! July and August have been full of fun summer times and some boringness - which isn't always bad. I guess the summer wasn't what I thought it would be. I tried working from home again, which didn't work out quite so well as it did last year. Everyone's a year older and a little more demanding of my attention. We didn't make very many swimming playdates nor have we gone to the beach at all! I haven't read any relaxing books and haven't felt very content. Probably the most exciting part of the summer has been getting ready for school and Ellie's fall extra-curricular activities! That's not true, Brian and I took a trip to Boston in July and we just welcomed home his sister, her husband and our niece, Zoe. I shouldn't complain at all. We are still blessed beyond measure. It has just been a trial period for me and a time of reflecting on who I am, what I'm doing and where I'm headed. What's good about all of those things and what needs to change. Some of those things I can affect and some require patiently waiting on the Lord. So, without further adeiu, here's the summer in pictures:

We started the summer with Ellie falling out of her bed for the first time!

Ellie and Ava at gymnastics - this is actually in the spring!

Ellie jumping into the pit - I remember those days!
Me and Brian in Boston

Ellie's performance at her Tinker Bell camp - I'll post video later.

Grandma's 90th Birthday!

Brian and Ellie went to FSU Fan Day!

She loved meeting the dancers and cheerleaders!

Ellie's performance at her Snow White camp - video to come.

Meeting Cousin Zoe!

Happy Independence Day!

2009-07-03T23:46:00.003-04:00

On this Independence Day, it seems more appropriate than ever to remember how we got to be the great country that we have become and to strive to do all that we can to keep it that way. Please, inform yourselves daily about the goings-on in Washington and do all that you can to get involved and let your congressmen and women know that we do not like the direction that we're headed. We want our children and grandchildren to grow up with the same principles and values and freedoms as Americans that we have grown up knowing. To display our love of country, Ellie and I drew a little flag on the driveway - well, not that little! Have a great 4th of July!

9 Months Already?!

2009-07-01T08:04:00.003-04:00

This precious girl is nine months old today! It's hard to believe that time has flown by so quickly. We are enjoying her more and more each day - as is her sister. We're not sure Aubrey enjoys all of the big sister affection all the time; but we keep letting Ellie 'have at her'! Here are nine things to know about Aubrey:
1- She's eating all kinds of finger foods now as well as yogurt and cottage cheese.
2- She's starting to get up on all fours and rock - just a little.
3- She has two teeth!
4- She still doesn't quite belly laugh; but her smiles are abundant - especially with those dimples.
5- She's fairly flexible with when she goes to sleep; but she must be on a flat surface so she can turn over - no sleeping in car seats or strollers!
6- She loves the water; especially lounging in her little baby boat!
7- She loves to swing - no surprise there!
8- She likes to pull Samson's hair - we keep this to a minimum though because...
9- Everything goes in her mouth!

Highs and Lows

2009-06-28T22:55:00.004-04:00

Well, I don't know where we've been. Just busy doing a whole lot of summer stuff and not finding much time to document it, I suppose. Do you ever feel like you can't keep everything going full steam all the time? I wish I could. It sure would make me feel better about my accomplishments. But right now I seem to excel at only one or two things at a time. And other things fall by the wayside. I'm trying to not put too much pressure on myself ( I think pressure is my middle name) to keep all the balls in the air in perfect unison all the time. But it's really hard. I have nothing to complain about though. When I think of our life in comparison to others who have real obstacles, it seems petty that I spend so much time fretting about my shortcomings. And the more time I spend fretting about them, the less time I have to be joyful and thankful for what I have AND the more in jeopardy I am for passing that attitude along to my children. I go in and out of these times of frustration (daily) and it gets frustrating (for lack of a better word) when it doesn't seem like I will ever rise above. I know I will because I want to; but it sure is taking a long time!

I just read an article about Jada Pinkett Smith in which she said that her husband, Will Smith, once told her that he is like reading the same brochure every day, sunny skies, smooth waves; while she is like reading a different brochure every day, always a new destination. I think I am much the same way - maybe more like the weather - you don't always know what you're gonna get - at least my family doesn't. I don't want to be that way. I would rather be smooth sailing day in and day out. I aspire to that. Now, with that said, here are some highs and lows in our house:

High: Aubrey finally has a tooth!
Low: She's really fussy and trying to bite!

High: Ellie has a wonderful, independent spirit.
Low: Ellie has a wonderful, independent spirit!

High: Ellie loves Aubrey!
Low: Aubrey does not always seem to appreciate the 3 year old affection!

High: We recently refinanced our house!
Low: The new rate!

High: Aubrey is FINALLY taking formula!
Low: She seems to prefer it over the real thing:(

That's all I've got. I'll post again soon with some pictures.

Bad Aunt!

2009-06-09T16:09:00.002-04:00

We had a wonderful time visiting my sister and her husband and of course, Baby Brayden. But do you think we even took our camera out of the case? I'm not sure what planet I thought I was on; but it was not the one where you take as many pictures as possible of your new nephew and his glowing parents. Or even the proud aunt holding him. There are pictures of proud cousin Ellie holding him; but not from my camera! Hello?!! I guess I was thinking I'd be in the way. Maybe I'll get a second chance soon. For those interested, click on 'Sister' under my blog reel on the right and you'll get all the info you're looking for from her birth story, which was pretty incredible, to his one week birthday. Amy and Chris, y'all are doing great - keep it up!

Wagon Strolling

2009-05-30T18:43:00.004-04:00

This one is for Gramma D and Granpa T:) I took the girls for a walk this afternoon in the wagon they got for Ellie for her second birthday, I believe. They also got this canopy thing that we hadn't used until today. It was so cool and so huge! Aubrey sat up like a big girl (with a pillow behind for extra cushion) and we had a great walk!

Color Personality

2009-05-28T20:04:00.004-04:00

Did you know that Glidden Paint has a color personality test? I learned about it at Blue Hydrangea (love the blogname since I love blue hydrangeas). She's got a great design site. Anyways, I took it today and it was spot on. I couldn't believe it. However, it didn't have red and you know that's one of my favorite decorating colors. So, if you wanna know what your preferences in color say about you, then click here and find out! Here are my results:

Restoring Raggedy Ann

2009-05-28T16:46:00.004-04:00

My mom gave me my 30-year old Raggedy Ann to pass down to Ellie when she was born. This poor Raggedy was deeply loved by all, including one of my cats that we had growing up. She was in desperate need of a facelift, literally, and a little cleaning up. So, over the long weekend, I decided to tackle this little project. I don't make dolls or repair them. I just did the best I could with the little sewing skills I've acquired. I should have taken a before picture. Oh well - I'll describe her before. Her clothes were stained from the years, elastic had lost its elasticity (she really did look like a rag-a-muffin and needed to quit dropping her pantaloons!) and the cat had given her a good open wound to the forehead. So, we soaked the clothes in oxyclean and then washed them. Then, I repaired the broken elastic with new and added another row of eyelet at the bottom of the dress. To repair her face, I just started stitching it together as best I could and then positioned a bow in her hair to camouflage it a little. The bow also served to make the somewhat dishelveled hair look not so bad. And here she is:If anyone knows how to get the stains off the doll herself, I'd appreciate any advice. I'm thinking maybe getting an oxyclean solution going and using a cotton swab to dab. Thoughts?

little bit

2009-05-19T20:45:00.003-04:00

Aubrey, Aubsie, Aubs, Aubrey Daubrey is approaching eight months, so I thought I'd share some fun things she's doing. She's still our little petite thing, at least two pounds or more smaller than her friends born the same week (and Ellie at eight months). She is sitting up like a champ and enjoying her new view of the world. She's getting very good at leaning forward to pick things up and looking around her to see other people without falling over. She has learned how to scrunch up her little nose and I think that is the most precious, irresistable look little babies can give. She does it all the time. Her favorite shows are Praise Baby and the intro by Moose and Zee on Noggin On Demand (cable). It's so funny to watch her light up and start laughing when it comes on (well, not quite - we still don't really laugh!). Can't wait for family to see her again!

iris

2009-05-13T20:50:00.003-04:00

This is what we woke up to this morning. Gorgeous.

There were eleven blooms!

A Great Weekend!

2009-05-11T21:50:00.006-04:00

Since Brian had to leave town on Sunday morning, we decided to do Mother's Day on Saturday. First, we headed out to his mom's house for their Crunch Brunch! The house was finally demolished to get rid of the old, flood stained walls and make way for the new, up on stilts, resistant to floods house! It was so cool and so many of their friends and neighbors were there for the fun. They even had a hardhat contest! There was also the cutest port-o-potty I've ever seen. Not only did it look like a wooden outhouse; but she had decorated the inside so it felt a little more cozy. You'll see pictures of that too! Click the picture below to see more:

Then we headed to Maclay Gardens for a Mother's Day picnic. Brian planned to stop at Fresh Market for our food and he got a delicious spread! The girls enjoyed the weather and so did we. Ellie and I played (tried to play) frisbie and sported our goggles?! Once again, click the picture for more:

Three reasons I'm proud to be a mom:

1- Ellie - the first one has definitely been the most challenging to my character, which I am grateful for. She is beautiful inside and out, intelligent, loyal, creative, loving, has a gorgeous smile and a contagious laugh.

2- Aubrey - she benefits from being number two! She's all smiles, easy-going, laughs in her own way, is petite and beautiful!

3- I would not be on the journey of becoming the beautiful woman God intends me to be if it were not for these two precious girls and their loving daddy who gently helps me to see that patience really is a virtue, I can laugh a little more and my way of doing things is not the only way.

eight

2009-05-08T21:59:00.001-04:00

8 things I am looking forward to:

My fourth Mother's Day.
Summer!!!!
Getting organized.
Sewing more.
More dates with hubby!
My nephew, Brayden, being born!
Seeing Charlotte, Ryan and Cousin Zoe (for the first time) in Auguet!
Tomorrow.

8 things I did yesterday:

Worked.
Went on a walk with the girls.
Started a project.
Mailed Mother's Day presents.
Watched Southland.
Nursed Aubrey.
Bought a crazy amount of salad dressing! It was on super saleJ
Read my Bible.

8 things I wish I could do:

Be more consistent with God time.
Go to the beach for a whole week with my awesome hubby and our girls.
Dance like the professionals/stars on Dancing With The Stars.
Be more disciplined.
Figure out my camera.
Laugh more with Ellie.
Landscape my yard.
Spend more quality time with my husband.

8 shows I watch:

Dancing With The Stars
The Real Housewives – doesn't matter which version
FOX News – most shows.
The Office.
Southland.
So You Think You Can Dance.
The Bachelor/Bachelorette
What Not to Wear.

Another Baby Shower!

2009-05-04T10:50:00.003-04:00

We got to shower Marie Webb yesterday and her girls Meg and Katie (on the way). It was so much fun and she got some really cute matching clothes! Click the picture for more pics from the day.

Easter, etc.

2009-04-25T13:35:00.002-04:00

Sorry I am just now updating from Easter. We have been traveling quite a bit and are finally home for a few weekends. We anticipate with excitement our next trip to visit the newest addition to our family, Brayden Christopher, whose mother is willing him to come early! I told her that didn't really work for me; but that doesn't mean I don't want it to work for her! Okay, back to Easter... . We went to Windermere the weekend before to visit Brian's grandparents, Grandma Marge and Grandpa Stan. Then it was off to Brian's dad's house for a Wolfe reunion of sorts. Sadly, this reunion was the first without Uncle Paul, who lost his battle with cancer in March. We had a wonderful time together, remembering him and hunting Easter eggs. Enjoy the pics HERE!

This SMILE...

2009-04-23T17:09:00.004-04:00

Okay, so this isn't a smile; but it is a funny face picture!

Got an A+ at the dentist office on Monday. It was Ellie's first trip and I was really worried she would freak out; but since she had been the week prior with her friends Jake and Brock (their mom, Brooke, kept Ellie for me during which time they had appts.), she was already familiar with the place. She had no cavities and great spacing and the perfect amount of overbite (which I always struggled with since I sucked my thumb FOREVER), which means that when her adult teeth come in, they should not have any problems crowding each other. Translation - straight teeth and no braces. That would be awesome!

The 'FREAKING' Water

2009-04-20T10:40:00.002-04:00

I'm cracking up as I write this post! Mommy's potty mouth strikes again. I am really good at not cursing at all and especially around the girls; but there are times - and you know what I mean, moms - when you really wish you could say what's it your head because you really think it might convince them that you're serious about being quiet or sitting down or whatever it is you're trying to get them to do! This time, that wasn't the case. I stepped out of the car to meet an old friend for lunch the other day and before I knew it 'Ugh, I stepped in freaking mud!' came flying out of my mouth. That NEVER happens to me - fingers crossed behind my back! My sweet husband will attest that is something he's tried to get me to pay attention to since we got married - filtering my words before opening my mouth. Anyways, we were at my sister's house this weekend for a baby shower (she's due May 30th with her first, Brayden!). While she and I were going over the couponing basics, Ellie started jumping off the stairs yelling 'The Freaking Water', watch out for 'The freaking water'! It was HILARIOUS and of course embarrassing at the same time because I had to fess up to husband where she got that from. He was not surprised! But we were all rolling on the floor laughing because she kept saying it over and over! Ah, another mirror moment for me!

Spring Pictures

2009-04-15T20:40:00.009-04:00

We had the great opportunity to have a 10 minute session with a pro just before Easter. Our friend Kristin organized the shoot with Carrie Stroud Photography and we just paid $25 for a cd of her picks. I really like her style. Here are the gorgeous ones she took of the girls! Hmmm...where to put these:)

Like Mother, Like Daughter?

2009-03-29T20:43:00.005-04:00

You know what they say about the apple and the tree... . Ellie attended the birthday party of her friend Irelyn a couple of weeks ago. Irelyn's mom, Autumn (Mrs. Right - check out her awesome web site on right side thinking HERE), did a cheerleading theme and, using Facebook, managed to secure a couple of high school cheerleaders to come teach the girls some cheers, do stunts, jumps, etc. Well, Ellie loved it and seemed to be a natural. The girls asked if I had thought about getting her into cheerleading - DUH! Apparently they can start pretty early in competition squads. Don't know if we'll do that; but it was flattering that they thought she had natural talent. Can you tell I'm proud?

Feeling Tired?

2009-03-27T06:08:00.002-04:00

Do you ever feel this tired?!
We were over at a friend's house Monday night and put Aubrey in their room to sleep - in her carseat. When we went to get her a couple of hours later, this is what we found! Look how close her feet were to the edge! Poor thing - she really loves sleeping on her tummy and unfortunately had a very bad hairdo when we got her up!

Happy Baptism, Aubrey!

2009-03-24T23:13:00.006-04:00

Aubrey was officially welcomed into our covenant family this past Sunday. This baptism has such symbolism and this time big sister got to stand beside her - she was so proud! Aubrey did great - it doesn't hurt that she sees our pastors every day while at work with mommy!

Sweet big sister:)

Happy girl teething!

I just love the difference in height represented here - and that's with 3" heels on!

To see more pictures online, click here!

My Couponing LIfe!

2009-03-11T16:05:00.003-04:00

I've finally begun really posting my transactions and how much I save versus spend and the value of it all. I just had to share that so far this month I've spent $85 on $246 worth of groceries and toiletries. And that's with two extra unplanned trips for specific needs that had no coupons. That means I've saved 65% so far. I'd say that's pretty good. My budget is $250 for the month and with only 2 1/2 weeks left to go, that shouldn't be difficult. Y'all, the time and effort is so worth it and I have so much more food and toiletries than I ever had before. If you want to learn more and start saving your pennies - especially since the government can't save theirs and plans to give us a hefty bill - visit www.frugalcouponmom.com to learn how. She's doing a seminar at Wildwood Church in Tallahassee in two weeks and one in Panama City next week.

Poodle Skirts and Curls!

2009-03-06T19:12:00.003-05:00

They're off to the Annual Father/Daughter Sock Hop again! It's a night of dancin', eating hamburgers, drinking milkshakes and having a great time with Daddy! I can't wait until he gets to take both girls; but for now, it's Ellie's second year going and man, was she looking forward to it. So was Dad! Have fun, baby!

5 months ago...

2009-03-03T15:53:00.003-05:00

Sweet Aubrey Elizabeth entered the world. It's hard to believe that much time has already FLOWN by. With your first, it seems like time just goes by so slow (at least to me probably because I wasn't really enjoying it much). But this time, it has absolutely flown. Here's our girl with her big sis - who reminds her regularly that she's her big sis!5 things we love about Aubrey:

Her dimples - she's had them since day one and we really hope they stay!
Her blue eyes - so beautiful and deeper than Ellie's were. Does this mean they'll stay that way? Hopefully so:)
Her huge smile - it just lights up your world, even though there's no giggle to go with it yet. What's up with that?
Her hair - wow, does this girl have hair! It's thick and dark and she's got a ton of it as you can see.
Her love for her sister - you can already see her just idolizing her and watching her every move.

Ellie Does Spanish Colors

2009-02-28T13:28:00.001-05:00

Wolfepack Recipes, Recipe #1

2009-02-22T16:24:00.005-05:00

Cinni-Minis

(these are actually cinnamon rolls; but since I didn't take a picture, this will have to do!)

My sister introduced this recipe to me a few years ago, and it has been a hit ever since. I made them today for a party and everyone there wanted the recipe. Since I've never been one to mind sharing recipes and sharing the love...here it is! It has been adapted from the original recipe since Pillsbury has listened to their users and now makes a version of their Crescent Rolls called Recipe Creations - no seams to mash together!

2 cans Crescent Rolls Recipe Creations
1/3 cup packed brown sugar
1 T sugar
1/4 cup chopped pecans
1 t cinnamon
6 T butter
2/3 cup powdered sugar
1/4 t vanilla
1/8 t salt
1 T milk

Melt butter and stir in brown sugar, sugar, pecans and cinnamon. Take off the heat so it's not quite so hot when you put it on the dough as to make it complete mush! Have a 9x9 (or a 13x9 if you double the recipe) ready for the rolls. Unroll the Recipe Creations roll on wax paper and press until flat and a little thinner. Cut in quarters so you have four rectangles. Spread 1/2 of the mixture evenly across all four rectangles. Now, work quickly because the hot mixture makes the dough really pliable and you don't want that. Roll each quarter lengthwise and using a casserole server, lift and put in the dish. Repeat until all are rolled up and put in the refrigerator for a couple of hours. If you don't have that much time, put them in the freezer for probably 30 min. or so. Once chilled, cut each roll into six pieces and place in a 9x9 or 13x9 depending on whether you doubled the recipe. The key is to have them nice and snug so they can't spread out when baking. Put them in the oven on 375 degrees for 15 minutes. While baking, stir the powdered sugar, salt, vanilla and milk together for the glaze. Let the cinni-minis cool for about five minutes and drizzle the glaze over the top. Yummy!

Proud Plug

2009-02-11T22:26:00.002-05:00

One of my couponing/frugal mama friends, Ashley Nuzzo, started her coupon blog, Frugal Coupon Mom on my right sidebar, about a month or so back and has been advertising it all over the place. She is truly amazing at many things; but especially when it comes to cranking numbers and organizing all of the deals to share with the rest of us. Tonight, Ashley was on our local news in a feature they did on her about couponing and her blog. She was recently interviewed for a web article by U.S. News and World Report. You can read that story here. If you're new to couponing, check out her site for all kinds of great tips and deals. Way to go, Ashley!

While Mommy was Away...

2009-02-11T22:15:00.007-05:00

I went on our church's retreat this weekend in Destin - LOVE Destin! My girlfriend, Meredith, and I both took the babies (who are five days apart) and left the older girls with the daddies. Ellie and Brian had a great time full of cooking, running Daddy errands, baking cookies (I know, my husband is a STUD;) and playing. Here are some pictures that Brian managed to take of their weekend together.

Valentine's Day

2009-02-11T22:02:00.002-05:00

Ellie has her school party tomorrow, so I thought I'd show you what all of her friends will receive. Aren't these cute?! I got the marshmallow idea from my friend Darby who's so creative. The cards I bought last year from Current and since they didn't arrive in time for V-Day last year, they were saved for this year. I had forgotten all about them and was so excited when I found them again a couple of weeks ago!

Our Petite Girl

2009-02-04T14:37:00.002-05:00

It's confirmed - at least so far. Aubrey is a little more petite than her big sister. Perhaps she is following in mommy's footsteps?! She had her four month appointment yesterday - can you believe it's already been four months?! She weighed 12lbs, 9oz, was 24.5" long and her head circumference was 16". This put her in the 25-50th percentile in all categories except weight, where she is in the 10-25th percentile - no doubt due to spitting up about half her meal at most feedings! It is about time to start solids, though, which should add some weight on - that is, if she eats them. So far, she doesn't like the cereal so we'll have to go ahead and add some applesauce or breastmilk to it to make it taste better. She also does not like the bottle! We tried at the beginning so we wouldn't find ourselves stuck. She liked it for a little while and then began a little protest of it which continues today. Hmm...any ideas? I've tried other bottles and I would try breastmilk instead (of which I don't have any pumped right now because I didn't think I'd need it); but she won't even try to suck on it to figure out if she likes it. It's an all out protest! This is totally opposite of Ellie who had no problem with it or cereal. Do we have a picky eater on our hands? I sure hope not! In better news, she FINALLY really slept through the night the past two nights, so we're keeping our fingers crossed that this will continue!

Power of a Positive Mom

2009-01-25T17:53:00.001-05:00

Have y'all read this book yet? I'm borrowing it right now (from Ellie's teacher!) and I need to just get on Amazon and buy it. I'd heard the title from other moms; but hadn't been so desperate (not that the other moms were desperate - that's just how I was feeling) that I really NEEDED to read it. It is soooo good and I am so glad Jackie let me borrow it. I'm sure the rest of my family and God are too since I was really disappointing him with my attitude!

A new camera doesn't make a good photographer!

2009-01-25T17:38:00.003-05:00

We just got this new camera and I am determined to learn how to use it to it's fullest capacity! I know some of you who read this are either professional photographers or really good amateur photographers. PLEASE send me some tips! I'm begging you! I do plan to read the book that came with it, of course; but would love to hear of some other photography books that you recommend. My family photo album (and this camera) thanks you!

Look-alikes?

2009-01-22T16:13:00.004-05:00

Everyone keeps telling me that Ellie and Aubrey look identical (as babies, I guess), so I thought I'd pull out some pictures and see.

Aubrey at almost 4 months.Ellie at almost 5 months.

What do you think?

Wordless Wednesday

2009-01-22T15:52:00.004-05:00

Celebrations

2009-01-21T10:43:00.008-05:00

This past weekend, we went over to Pensacola again to throw my parents a 60th birthday party. They do not look or act their age at all and we are so thankful to have such youthful parents! We had lots of fun and realized that this is the first time we've ever thrown them a party. Mom turned 60 two weeks before dad and they're having a blast. 60 brings them 4 grown children, 2 grandbabies and one on the way, 2 sons-in-law, continued health and happiness, tons of wisdom (and kids who want to hear it!). We love you, mom and dad! Keep on keepin' on!

Brian has been busy increasing his gun collection and learning everything about them. Of course he wants to go hunting soon...! But, in the meantime, he's gotten dad, the brothers and the brother in law out to the shooting range the past two times we've been to Pensacola. It's great to see our men having a blast - no pun intended!

A Delightful Chrismas

2008-12-31T15:22:00.006-05:00

We had a wonderful Christmas this year! We had all decided to make it not so big and I'm so thankful we did. Even the girls didn't get a ton of stuff, which made for not having to find places to put all the new things! I am certainly enjoying the week after to clean and just relax, though! Ellie's favorites have been a paper doll set from Abuela, a Haystacks memory game from Gramma D and Grampa T and Chutes and Ladders from Granpa John and Granma Geri. Of course, she's been playing on the swingset a ton - what a blessing! Aubrey was quite happy that Santa remembered to bring her some bows for all that hair! Julie and Brian finally got some red wine glasses, thanks to Julie's sister, Amy, among many other thoughful gifts. Ellie and Mommy enjoyed quite a bit of baking on Christmas Eve and Daddy made a delicious Lowcountry Boil that we all agreed should become tradition! Most of all, we were overjoyed to spend great quality time with family since that's what it's all about! Here's Aubrey with a bow!

A Frugal Christmas Game

2008-12-20T22:55:00.003-05:00

When I got to Pensacola yesterday, my mom pulled out a Christmas memory game that she had made to play with Ellie. I had forgotten; but she did these a lot with us when we were little. Just take a piece or two of heavier paper and draw a grid on it with 2" x 2" squares. Then, (this is the only thing you may have to buy) get some Christmas stickers that have enough variety to make at least ten different pairs. For the younger kids, stickers with characters are probably easier. For older kids, you could probably use snowflakes with different variations or something to make it a little harder. Place one sticker in each square, cut the squares and - voila! - you've got a Christmas memory game. Ellie is three and she and I played a couple times today. She loved it!

Christmas for the Kids - and the Firemen!

2008-12-20T22:50:00.003-05:00

Last Friday, we had a Christmas party for the kids at Autumn's house (thanks again for letting our kids trash your kitchen floor!) The kids decorated cookies while the moms did a kids craft - it involved too much hot glue and attention for the kids! Then we took the cookies to our local fire station where the kids sang 'We Wish you a Merry Christmas' and 'Jingle Bells' to the firemen on duty. They (the kids and the firemen) were delighted and we were treated to tours of the fire truck as an added bonus. What a blast!

So this is Christmas...

2008-12-19T22:27:00.005-05:00

I'm beginning to learn what it's like to 'put on' Christmas for your family or children even when you may be too tired to feel like it. I love Christmas; but it's always been stressful for me to try to make it all happen. To get the gift that each person wants, to decorate just right, make the best food ever, pick out the perfect card, etc. It's easy to get wrapped up in all of that and forget about the true meaning of Christmas - Christ's birth - which has absolutely nothing to do with all of the glitz we've grown accustomed to. It's also easy to emphasize the other, more commercialized part of Christmas - you know...Santa - when you've got small children who see it everywhere and you want them to be excited about Santa; but not at Christ's expense. I have found it especially difficult this year to find little moments to teach Ellie the Christmas story (probably because of her new little sister). I think I've taken for granted that she learns it in school and church. HELLO...I'm already letting them do the teaching for me - how awful! Some years are exceptions, so I'm giving us grace (something I'm not good at but am learning to be better about). I really want to establish traditions of doing the advent candles and reading a different part of the Christmas story every night and maybe even acting it out and listening to all the spiritual Christmas songs instead of the mainstream ones on the radio. I really do want to enjoy it all and not be so stressed out that I can't wait until it's over. Is this what it feels like to be a mom and want to make sure everyone's happy and taken care of and has a perfect Christmas? I think a perfect Christmas is probably not fathomable, so I'll just find joy in imperfection and in seeing my sweet little three-year old's face light up - and my husband's too - just because Mommy is happy and having fun. It's not here yet - I've still got a few days left. I'll reflect on the joy and miracle of Christmas this year like never before.

Merry Christmas!

I Heart WAGS

2008-12-14T16:36:00.002-05:00

I don't usually do this; but WAGS (otherwise known as Walgreens) had great sales this week. I went twice and yesterday was one of my best trips ever. What you see pictured cost me a whopping $9. It actually should have only cost $4; but one of my register rewards didn't print from my first transaction that I would have redeemed in my second. Still, this is really good! The value of all of these items is $61.

Catching Up...

2008-12-10T16:09:00.011-05:00

I've wanted to post on a lot of activities over the past couple of weeks; but just have not been able to find the time that I wanted to set aside for doing it. So, I finally found some time and it's all going to be in one post!

Two weeks ago today, we traveled to my sister's in Atlanta for Thanksgiving. They are in their beautiful new house and we had a great time! (after the 8 hour trip that should have taken 5!) The first day we were there, we got the news that they are having a BOY! Yeah!! We can't wait to meet the little booger. The pregnancy is going very well so far, which is a huge answer to prayer!

On the second day, Thanksgiving, we walked down the road to visit the five donkeys and two horses:
Oh, I almost forgot about the pillowcase indian costume I made for Ellie that didn't make it on the trip - oops! I dubbed her Princess Talking Flower! Wonder why...!
On the day that we (the home-team Seminoles) got beat by them (the Tebow-worshipping Gators), Aubrey turned two months old! We can't believe it's already been two months since she entered our world. She is so precious and I'll do a whole other post on her later. I snapped this picture (that I mean to do each month and really wish I had at one month because she's grown so much). What a cutie patootie!
Last week, Ellie and I got to spend some time together while Gramma D watched little Aubrey. It was fun; but not at all quite as appreciated as I expected. More on that later - I've got a lot to learn! I kept reminding myself that it was our time to do what SHE wanted, not want I wanted (accomplish a ton of errands)! With that in mind, we had ice cream, went to Zoinks, aka "The Bouncy Place" and bought a gingerbread house to make. Now, as an adult, it makes complete sense to me that you make gingerbread houses NOT to be eaten and they make take a while to make - well, almost complete sense. But not to a three year old! And why should it? Why can't we eat it? In their little instant, self-gratification world (we are talking about a three-year old here, not me! - some lessons take a long time to learn, huh?) they don't understand the concept and I don't blame her. I ignorantly set myself up for this one! We put the sides together and then it had to sit to harden for a while. Then we put the roof on and it had to sit again. Poor Ellie was quite annoyed with this process. Finally, on day three, we finished it! Can you tell where mommy got to control where the candy went and where I decided to let Ellie have 'artistic freedom'? I think she just dumped the candy at the end!
So, we attempted to make gingerbread cookies that you CAN eat; but the recipe I used produced the gooeist dough that falls apart that I've ever seen. Oh well!

This past Saturday, Ellie got her hair cut for the first time! Her friend got hers cut a couple of weeks ago and it's still curly so I thought we could go for it. She was really excited and did really good - and it's a little more curly since it's not so heavy anymore!
After that, we went to see The Nutcracker Ballet and had the best seats ever! Ellie got to sit with some friends in the second row! She really enjoyed it. Thanks Amy V.!

In Aubrey news, she's successfully sleeping in her crib at night, although not all the way through yet, which is fine. And, she is taking a nap in her crib during the day! This has been much easier than it was with Ellie thanks to it being the second time around and God giving us another good sleeper.

My Friend Maddie...and the other Maddie and Tyler and the other Tyler!

2008-12-09T21:47:00.002-05:00

A few months back, I wrote about Ellie's imaginary friend, Maddie. Well, Maddie now has a sister also named Maddie and two brothers or friends ( I still can't figure out which) named Tyler and the other Tyler. Now, when you talk about the Maddie's and the Tyler's, you have to say 'Maddie and the other Maddie and Tyler and the other Tyler'. And they're always together, never separated! I've tried saying 'the Maddies and the Tylers' and I've been corrected! Maddie and the other Maddie and Tyler and the other Tyler always are doing exactly what Ellie is doing or have done that day what Ellie did! It's pretty cute. We're able to use them for teachable moments too. Ellie is definitely three and that means arguing, questioning and figuring out her boundaries. So, we ask her if Maddie and the other Maddie and Tyler and the other Tyler talk to their parents that way and what happens when they do. She's also told us that they've told her to do things that are contrary to what we want her to do so we're able to use that to teach about following obeying our friends or our parents. Thanks Maddie and the other Maddie and Tyler and the other Tyler for all of these teachable moments! She's also got a friend named JJ; but he doesn't come around very often!

Thanksgiving...

2008-11-25T20:05:00.004-05:00

This Thursday, my two girls will be wearing their 'Gobble' shirts for Thanksgiving. I'm thankful that I was able to enjoy some time making them with friends (and saving lots of money doing it). I'm thankful for another healthy baby who is truly a joy even though she spits up just like her sister did. (Was that too much info? Sorry.) I'm thankful for a wonderful big sister who truly loves loving on Aubrey (see slide show below). I'm thankful that we are all healthy. I'm thankful that God continues to provide for us in ways we can't even imagine. I'm thankful for family. I'm thankful for the lessons that I am still learning - and being quite stubborn about. I'm thankful for hard times that make us learn and grow. I'm thankful for the love my husband shows me every day even though I really don't think I deserve it. I'm thankful for the love my God shows me and bestows upon me through friends and family - I definitely don't deserve it. I'm thankful for the salvation he granted me many years ago. I'm thankful for the blessing of sharing that with our children. I'm so thankful for our country where we have so many things to be thankful for, not least of which is our freedom and opportunity. There are so many other things that I just can't think of. Are you thankful this Thanksgiving? Make sure to stop and think about all the many ways God has blessed you and yours. It's amazing!

One Month Ago...

2008-11-19T22:03:00.003-05:00

Yesterday, Ellie and Aubrey's first cousin was born and Brian and I finally became Aunt and Uncle. Zoe Noelle Reeves was born in Cambridge, England to Brian's sister, Charlotte, and her husband, Ryan. Happy One Month, Zoe! We're so glad you're here!

As a side note, we're looking forward to meeting our next niece or nephew in May since Julie's sister, Amy, is pregnant!

Gobble Gobble

2008-11-12T16:07:00.003-05:00

Yesterday, my friends and I hijacked a design we saw and made our own little Thanksgiving shirts for the kids. I only had time to get Aubrey's finished and boy did Ellie call me out on it! I guess I should have done hers first since she's the one who knew what I was up to and not her 6 week old sister. I'm really trying not to make her feel like she's been replaced and I feel like that was a bad call yesterday. Oh well. I'll get the hang of it and she'll get hers later this week. Here's Aubrey's:

Trick or Treat!

2008-11-11T20:18:00.006-05:00

I know, I know...it was a couple of weeks ago. Gimme a break! At least I'm posting on it;) So, this was the first year Ellie really got it - the point of Halloween - the CANDY! The week before, our church hosted a festival and it was so much fun. We look forward to this with anticipation each year. Ellie was able to participate in the booths (although not with much proficiency) in order to get candy. Believe me when I say that she wanted to do as many booths as many times as possible! We dressed she and Aubrey up in tandem - Ellie was Little Bo Peep and Aubrey was her lost (or not) sheep. They were so cute!
By the time we got to Halloween, she had decided she wanted to be Angelina Ballerina again - this is what she was last year. I decided I was not going to fight it - if she was going to be happy as a ballerina, that was fine with me! We went to a friends house with some other couples and the kids had a great time. By the time we started trick or treating, she was a fairy princess ballerina! Check out the pictures Here. Our batteries were dead, so these are pics from Auntie Steph's camera. Enjoy all the pictures of Lucy and Ryan too!

Picture Pages...

2008-11-09T15:48:00.003-05:00

Sorry it's been a while. Been a little busy. We're doing great! Here are some pictures to get you by until I take a chance to update!

Daddy hijacks the blog

2008-10-02T20:44:00.006-04:00

So for some reason Julie gave me the password to this puppy and I'm on the loose! We're in the hospital for (hopefully) our last night before going home.

So, is this Julie or what?

10:30 PM the night before she has to be at the hospital at 5 AM and she's working on a brochure for work - Then about 27 hours after the baby was born, she's in the room, in her bed, strategizing with Ashley Nuzzo about the latest coupon deals at CVS - something about razors for a penny or them actually paying US to take toilet paper out of the store...she never stops. It's sort of disturbing, in an amazingly frugel sort of way.

In case you haven't heard, we welcomed Aubrey Elizabeth into the world at 7:47 AM on October 1st. She was 7lb 9oz and 20 inches of amazingness.

We've got pictures on snapfish - click here!

I'm sure Julie will have a more "professional" post when she gets home.

Peace out!

OH, and a special shout-out to Brook Veleber and Rachel Dasher for being the best nurses in the world!

My Last Meal!

2008-09-30T16:35:00.003-04:00

By this time tomorrow, Baby Aubrey will have made her entrance into the world and into our lives (and arms and out of my belly - whew -relief!). Since I'm having a repeat c-section, I can't eat after midnight tonight. Although I complain about it, it shouldn't be too bad since I'm scheduled at 7:30am. For my last meal, I was going to make this Easy Pumpkin Soup that many of you have asked for the recipe. It is so good any time of year; but especially in the fall. I say 'was' because by the time I got in there to make it, I didn't feel like standing anymore, so we heated leftovers. Anyways, break out the pumpkin, canned that is, and treat yourself to this yummy soup.

Easy Pumpkin Soup
1/2 cup onion - chopped
3 T butter
2 C canned pumpkin (I think 2 cans actually makes it creamier)
1 t salt
1 T sugar
1/4 t nutmeg
1/4 t ground pepper
3 C chicken broth
1/2 c half and half
Optional - kernel corn (white or yellow - I use frozen)

Chop onions and gently brown in butter in stockpot. Stir in mashed pumpkin and add salt, sugar, nutmeg and pepper. Slowly add chicken broth & heat thoroughly; but do not boil. To serve, pour into soup tureen (or individual bowls) and add the cream on top. You could do it somewhat artistically for presentation if you want! Makes 4-6 medium servings.

It's really good served with some kind of artisan bread or parmesan toasts!

Since it's pumpkin season, I had the Pumpkin Spice Latte at Starbucks today too - YUM! You have to try it:)

Priceless...

2008-09-27T21:09:00.008-04:00

This is what it looks like when Ellie does construction with her daddy! I just love this picture because I remember helping my dad do projects around the house and countless trips to the hardware store. What a cutie!

Ellie's Three!!!

2008-09-25T20:07:00.003-04:00

Last Friday, Ellie celebrated her third birthday! As we look forward to Baby Aubrey's arrival on Wednesday, it's hard to believe that three years ago, we were awaiting our first child's entrance into our lives. She has blessed us and challenged us tremendously over the past three years. The challenges have come in the way of God completely revealing to us our depravity and selfishness and some bad habits too! I guess those are also blessings. In more obvious ways, she has blessed us with her smile, laughter, imagination, sociability, and just her presence. As most parents say, we couldn't imagine our lives any differently now - although sometimes we try to imagine what life was like without her. I must say, it's really hard to remember and we are definitely two better people because of her.

So, we had fun celebrating with her by having a horse party at Happy Trails Ranch. The kids got to feed and ride the horses, watch a cat and a dog do tricks and go on a hayride. Everyone had a great time and fall decided to make it's debut with gorgeous skies, cool temperatures and a little reprieve from the love bugs - which are not at all lovely! There are two links to the pictures: one from Our Camera (these include at home birthday pics) and one from Stephanie's (thanks, Steph!).

Two of a kind; but each their own

2008-09-21T22:02:00.005-04:00

Thanks to all my wonderful friends who threw us a fun, unique shower last weekend! My sweet girlfriends decided it would be fun to shower us with matching clothes for Ellie and Aubrey and I couldn't wait to see what they'd come up with! First of all, they decorated in zebra and pink theme - which I LOVED! I took Ellie with me so she could help open and since half of the presents were for her! She loved helping me open everything - and then played when she got too bored. Thank you everyone for a fun time - I can't wait to see these two in all their matching clothes! One girl even got pajamas because her girls love having matching pjs. Now that I think about it, Amy and I had a lot of matching pjs, only hers were pink and mine were purple - good memories!

T minus 11 days!

2008-09-21T19:30:00.003-04:00

Well, the time is almost here and we've gotten a lot done. I thoroughly enjoyed my shower last weekend - more on that later. Brian's mom's birthday and Ellie's birthdays have come and gone this week, including Ellie's party at Happy Trails yesterday - more on that later too! What else? Shelves are up, letters ordered, basket for toys is painted and filled. Crib sheet is in, car seat is clean and in the car, swing is down and clean, pregnancy pictures are ordered and frames purchased. Just need to go to Target to pick up a few odds and ends and find a diaper bag. Poor Brian is the recipient of my 'must get this done now, I'm not asking again - it's D-Day' attitude. He's a great sport and I'm sorry, honey! Thanks for all of your hard work - this house and family wouldn't run without you - and certainly wouldn't feel like a home! Please keep praying for all of the pregnancies that are about to come to a close - we can't wait to welcome these babies:

Meredith and Trent Carter will welcome their second, Baby Ella, on Friday, 9/26
We will welcome Baby Aubrey on Wednesday, 10/1
Ginny and James Yearty will welcome their third around 10/7
Brian's sister, Charlotte, and her husband, Ryan will welcome their first, Baby Zoe, around 10/10 - in England!
Rachel and Mike Dasher will welcome Baby Daniel around 10/22
And there's more after that!

The Most Anticipated Shower Ever

2008-09-16T19:01:00.008-04:00

On September 6th, a bunch of friends and family had the very distinct pleasure of honoring our dear friends Mike and Rachel Dasher at one of the most beautiful and touching showers ever. We have been waiting and praying for this baby, Daniel Reagan Dasher, for the last 3+ years and can't believe that he's finally almost here! Rachel and Mike are dear friends who we love and support with all of our hearts. We are so blessed to have them in our lives and look forward with anticipation to how God continues to bless them through the birth of their son (on or around October 22nd). Below are some pictures from the shower.

Jingle Frog and Swimmy Diapers

2008-09-16T19:01:00.002-04:00

One night last week, Ellie decided that she and Jingle Frog were going swimming in the pond. Why? Because that's where frogs swim of course! So she found one last swimmy diaper, which fit Jingle Frog perfectly and put on her swimsuit too! Her imagination is amazing to me:)

Please Pray

2008-09-06T16:52:00.002-04:00

As you've probably seen in another post, Brian's mom's house flooded in Tropical Storm Fay. Please pray for them as they are in the process of cleaning up and will begin thinking about restructuring what has been lost. We have not been out there yet and plan to go tomorrow; but from what they've told us, they are ripping the walls to the studs for 4 feet up from the ground! Of course this means they're ripping up flooring too. We know they're strong and thank the Lord for their health and stamina; but I'm sure it gets overwhelming at times. So, please pray for them as they walk through this unfortunate experience. Thanks!

Ellie's First Day of School

2008-09-06T15:53:00.004-04:00

Ellie's a big three-year old now and going to school five mornings a week! This should prove to be a huge blessing with my work schedule - especially after the summer! Phew - we made it back to the fall and normal scheduling:) Even though I only worked three mornings the first week (Monday was Labor Day and Friday was my birthday outing), it felt good to be there on a consistent basis. Her teachers, Ms. Jackie and Ms. Katie, say she's doing great and she's already got a new 'friend' - Preston! Great...we're gonna have to watch out for this girl - we think she's a little flirt already! Just for comparison, here's last year's pic:

T Minus 3 weeks and 4 days!

2008-09-06T15:44:00.004-04:00

Well, we've definitely made headway in the last couple of weeks. As you saw in the post before this, the bedding is finished. So, here's my list - and since I'm such a list maker, I've added a few more (some that are already crossed off!).

Finish last bumper for crib - CHECK!
Finish sewing changing table skirt - CHECK!
Find stuff to decorate the walls - name, shelves, art, etc. - Have shelves and made French Memory Board
Find bookcase for Ellie
Find baskets to put stuff in/organize - CHECK!
Make a sling? (need more fabric)
Make/buy a diaper bag
Make presents for SIL's baby Zoe!
Normal, everyday life stuff
Rachel's shower - CHECK!
My shower, next Saturday
Ellie's Birthday Party - 9/20

I'm definitely feeling a little better; but if I stand in the room too long, I get overwhelmed. I know it will all get done and what doesn't get finished will happen eventually!

Aubrey's Room

2008-09-06T15:21:00.013-04:00

Here's the long-awaited post on Aubrey's room...after much love (and sore back) put into this project, I am definitely pleased. I'm not sure if I'll do it again - however, now that I've done it once, it shouldn't be as hard the next time. Plus, it's probably like having a baby - you forget how painful it was when you decide you'd like to have another! Here are the pics of the handiwork (the room itself is not completely finished; but getting there). I don't think the pictures do it justice; but you'll get the idea.

Window Valance
One of the bumpers - it's hard to tell in the crib pics.
One angle - notice no crib sheet yet!
Inside of bumpers is beautiful pink - hard to tell:(
Trying to get a good angle for the stripes

Ellie thought her Raggedy's should play in the crib for now! (PS - the one on the right was mine, hence the extra love it's received! The one on the left we got for her last year in Charleston.)

Changing table skirt matches crib skirt

Update on Birthday Ice Cream

2008-09-06T15:15:00.002-04:00

Since so many of you have asked if I had ice cream yesterday for breakfast, lunch and dinner - I did not:( I had fully planned to have it at least twice; but just did not have time - or room in my stomach! I was, however, treated to a yummy breakfast with friends, followed by a pedicure. This has become somewhat of a tradition with us and I think we all look forward to it each time one of our birthdays arrives. How fun it is to spend part of the day getting pampered with and by close friends I love and adore! Then, I got Ellie from school and spent the rest of the afternoon running around getting the fixin's for SUSHI! Brian had invited friends over for dinner and we decided to make sushi followed by red velvet cake and ice cream - so I had it once! It's so much fun and tastes so good:) Thanks again for all the calls and notes of birthday wishes. It was a wonderful day!

I Scream, You Scream...!

2008-09-04T16:28:00.007-04:00

Julie is screaming for ICE CREAM!!! So, if I've had one craving this pregnancy, it's been for ice cream. And since Publix puts a different brand of ice cream on B1G1 free each week during the summer, I have had no problem paying for my newly found addiction! (this week, it's Publix's brand, which is perfectly yummy! AND...Blue Bell is 2/$7) Since I've loved ice cream so much - believe me, this is not my normal addiction - usually I'm jabbing at my husband for enjoying a bowl each night - I was quite delighted to learn that many ice cream joints have birthday clubs where you get free ice cream on your birthday (and they're not all for kids!). So, I've signed up for a few of them and I'll be visiting them starting tomorrow! Perhaps you should sign up too - everyone deserves to treat themselves to free ice cream on their birthday. (For those who are allergic or lactose-intolerant, I am so sorry you are not able to enjoy this treat!)

Since some of them are places like Cold Stone and Marble Slab, I am soliciting your favorite concoctions to try, so post a comment with your fav! I'm usually a chocoholic; but Ellie's blend of bubblegum ice cream with marshmallows and sprinkles on top is really good for the kid in me! Click through these links to sign up:

www.marbleslab.com - this one is actually just kids; but you can give it a try
www.coldstonecreamery.com
www.baskinrobbins.com

Happy Birthday to All!

The First Week of September

2008-09-03T16:05:00.002-04:00

I look forward to this week each year. For 32 years, I've had one reason to look forward to Labor Day and the first week of September - my birthday! Now, I have another reason which I think I'm a little more excited about - Ellie starts school! She started this week and of course, since it's her second year, I haven't taken pictures yet. I'll do that tomorrow. I can't believe she's such a big girl - she's going five days a week now! It's amazing the difference between this year and last. I have looked forward to this day all summer long!!! Not because we didn't have a great summer. We had plenty of fun swimming and doing crafts. Ellie went to a few camps and visited her Abuela and Papi in Pensacola for a week. But it was really hard to work with her around all the time. Now that she's going every day, I can work while she's in school and not have to take any work home - hardly ever! For those who don't know, Ellie goes to school at our church, which is where I work, so this simplifies things greatly! Speaking of simplification, look for a post on that soon.

Is it Hurricane Season or something?!

2008-08-27T22:14:00.006-04:00

Well, we were supposed to go to Pensacola for Labor Day weekend; but Gustav has us thinking twice. If it comes here, we'll need to prepare. If it goes to Pensacola or close to their west, my parents will have to prepare. So, we're staying put after all. Which is a bummer because this was supposed to be our annual Labor Day with my family. But even more than that, it's a bummer because somewhere, someone else is going to be affected by another tropical system. Living in Florida all my life, you get used to the threat of storms; but the devastation that some experience (thankfully never me) is something you never get used to. We got dumped on this past weekend by Tropical Storm Fay more than we've ever been by any other storm in the 14 years I've lived in Tallahassee. My in-laws house is flooded, my friends have a river for a street right now, and Lake Ella spilled into Monroe Street - crazy!

You can see more images of Lake Ella here. We got over 20" of rain! So, of course those affected most by the flooding can't stand to have more. Pensacola just finished the new I-10 bridge which replaced the old one that was ripped apart by Ivan 4 years ago. And we all know New Orleans is still reeling from Katrina. It was three years ago that we were waiting the arrival of Ellie and wondering if hurricanes were going to hit us. Now we're waiting the arrival of Aubrey and wondering the same thing. We know our God will take care of all of us; but it's still a little nerve-racking!

It's a Jungle Out There...err, in here!

2008-08-27T21:59:00.006-04:00

With all the rain we've gotten recently, the 'wild' things that love damp climates and woodsy habitats have been out in abundance at our house. So much so that they're looking for a new place to live - in our house! Here are three such animals I saw just today:

A Blue-Tailed Skink (in the house), an American Green Tree Frog (in the house), and a Luna Moth (fortunately on the outside of the sliding glass door)

Fortunately I am not really afraid of any of these creatures since I had to catch and send them back outside - although I have been known to climb whatever I can to get away from other creepy-crawlies. Actually the skink is still inside because as you know, they move lightning-fast - which means I'll probably find it belly-side up sometime in the next week - great! The moth looked like a bird flying by and fortunately stopped so I could marvel at how huge it was. Apparently these Luna Moths don't have mouths and don't eat. They are alive for one week just to mate and that's it! I guess this is Cicada season also, because I've seen -err, heard - plenty of them flapping their wings on my sliding glass door this week. Let me tell ya - you'd think a bird hit the door they're so loud! The poor dogs just don't know what do to with their wild kingdom in the back yard - hopefully they won't think any of them smell appetizing!

T Minus 5 weeks and 2 days!

2008-08-25T08:20:00.003-04:00

Well, Aubrey will be here in 5 weeks and 2 days! We scheduled the repeat C-section last week for 7:30am Wednesday, October 1st. Unless she comes early, that's her birthday! That means I've got a list to conquer. Let's see:

Finish last bumper for crib
Finish sewing changing table skirt
Find stuff to decorate the walls - name, shelves, art, etc.
Find bookcase for Ellie
Find baskets to put stuff in/organize
Make a sling?
Make/buy a diaper bag
Normal, everyday life stuff

You know, if it didn't take me so long to complete projects, I would have this all done by now; but oh well - it does.

Recommittment to Blogging!

2008-08-25T07:54:00.002-04:00

Okay, I know it's been over a month again since I've blogged. I have the hardest time just sitting down to blog something little each day. I'd rather wait until I've got something bigger to talk about; but then that takes forever and you haven't seen what's been going on in our lives. So, I'm going to try to blog something small each day so you'll stay informed (and I won't forget the small joys of each day)!

With that said, enough of the rain already! I know I shouldn't complain. I keep reminding myself of Noah having to endure 40 days of it. And I'm not in my in-laws situation, who've had to leave their home because they were told it was going to flood. I'll let you know more about that when I catch up with them later. For me, it's the inconvenience of not being able to get out of the house - either literally due to no electricity to open the garage door! (thanks again, Webb's, for letting me out!) or just because it's such a hassle with a little one to try to get out in the rain. However, I am learning little by little not to be so inconvenienced because that shows an attitude of pride and overall discontent and that is not how we're supposed to live. Once again, the biggest turn-off is watching or listening to your child repeat things you've said that are so ugly - and this really makes me want to change. The other day she said 'Mom, the stupid yogurt got in my hair.' WOW! If that didn't sound like me and sooo repulsive. Thanks for the 'mirror', Ellie. Hopefully, it's making me a better example - and a more joyful individual.

Aubrey's First Gifts

2008-07-23T21:40:00.006-04:00

I am reminded each day of how much people that surround our family love us unconditionally and take delight in us, even if we hardly know them. It compels me to want to be more Christlike in many ways; but in these instances, I want to show and take the time to communicate what someone means to me or our family.

A lady at our church whom I've become very fond of for her volunteerism, her can-do attitude, and her desire to just serve regardless of how it may inconvenience her, gave me Aubrey's first presents today. I don't think she can be inconvenienced. (Now, this is an attitude I struggle with immensely and which my husband does a great job reflecting for me. Sometimes I wonder how someone could not feel inconvenienced - that shows the extent to which I struggle with it!) Anyways, and she's not one of those meek people who you wish would stand up for themselves. Oh no, she's got a voice and the height to match! But she enjoys serving. So, she helped me a bunch with our church directory a couple of months ago and she and Ellie became 'tight'! It didn't hurt that Ellie always got a lollipop from her! Well, she surprised me with her generosity and immense talent with this beautiful basket of custom, handmade items for Aubrey and Ellie.
In this basket are: 2 bunnies with each girls initials on them, the burp cloth you see with Aubrey's initials - which I love, in part because they are very familiar: they remind my of my sister's maiden initials which were AED and Aubrey's are AEW, 2 white pillows with white trim with each of the girls initials, 2 pairs of matching socks: one for Ellie and one for Aubrey with lace sewn on, 2 dresses for Ellie: one with her initials and the other with 'Big Sister', and the most beautiful crocheted dress and booties for Aubrey - that Rhonda made!!!! She told me she used to sell this stuff and let me tell you, she does amazing work! Here they are (pics don't do justice):What a blessing to have this new, precious friend in our lives! Thank you, Rhonda!!

Faith Challenge

2008-07-23T15:23:00.003-04:00

Since doing a study this summer called "Give Me 40 Days" by Freeda Bowers, I've really been challenged on a few things. I've been challenged to get up and spend at least 40 minutes praying every day. If that's not hard enough, I am supposed to just pray for other people's needs, or other people, not my own needs. It's so hard to not focus on yourself; but it's so rewarding to focus on others. I've really enjoyed not getting quite so wrapped up in my own stuff! I've been challenged to pray truly believing that God will answer and he will provide. Not just that he can; but he will. He promises that to us. Hebrews 11:6, Philippians 4:19, etc. I guess it's hard for us to believe that all the time because our minds can't comprehend it. When we as humans let each other down so much or aren't able to meet our own needs or the needs of others, it's hard to believe that someone can and will! He has all the power to provide for us - we just have to have faith to call on that power, believing that he will - he truly will.

I subsribed to the Proverbs 31 Ministries devotionals a couple of years ago and get one in my inbox each day. There have only been a handful that didn't really apply to my current situation; but they all have been awesome. If you're not already subscribed, I would encourage you to do so Here. I like to print the more applicable ones and do extensive devotions on them. Today's was entitled "Running by Faith" and it was incredible. When I linked to the author's blog (Tracie Miles), she had an article about her devotional and is doing a 5-day Faith Challenge starting TODAY! You can sign up to be a part of the challenge and list your blog, or just list your name. I kind of took this as a sign from God that he is ushering me into a deeper faith and dependence on Him, since I was already on the subject in my current devotion! If Faith is something you struggle with, then sign up to take this challenge with me. I can't wait to see what God does!

My Friend Maddie

2008-07-13T09:24:00.003-04:00

Apparently we've entered the world of imaginary friends - at almost three! I guess I thought this came later; but it's happened. Ellie's friend is Maddie. She knows a girl named Maddie and had been talking about going to her house A LOT. Well, we hadn't been to Maddie's house in quite some time, so that got us thinking that there was another Maddie that we didn't know about! We started asking questions like where does Maddie live and what's Maddie doing right now. Does Maddie have any brothers and sisters, etc. Her answers, and the fact the she would start talking about her like she was right there playing with her led us to believe that Maddie is an imaginary friend. Fortunately, they just like to have fun together and Maddie is not telling her to do anything bad or even disobedient. They go swimming together and play with Ellie's toys. They've even been to Hollywood! (I think Ellie learned of Hollywood through the VBS theme at church this summer!) I don't know if I had an imaginary friend - mom will have to tell me; but I can see where the time just before baby sister arrives might be a ripe time to develop a friend. It's really cute and we try to embrace it and not be afraid of it. I haven't read up on it yet; but I think that's what you're supposed to do. Here's an article about it if anyone else is going through this right now.

Summer Projects

2008-07-06T21:32:00.009-04:00

I've been busy lately doing a few projects around the house. There's a whole other list that I'll begin working on soon that's all centered on Baby Aubrey's arrival; but these are not part of that mile-long list! My mom will be happy to see that I've finally done something with that fabric I bought while shopping with her back in November! I made valances for the kitchen and dining room and plan to make some pillows as well. The curtains hanging in the dining room were ones we already had and complimented the fabric very well. If you haven't seen my dining room, it's definitely been a work in progress over the time that we've lived here. It's finally come together this year with a hutch, beautiful black chairs from Wood-U that my brother painted and a black iron chandelier with champagne shades. We just need to add a chair rail and paint the bottom tan and we'll be done!

I've been growing herbs in my kitchen window sill since Brian got me these cute little chalkboard painted planters from Pottery Barn for Christmas last year. You can kind of see them in the kitchen picture above, although they're empty because I need to plant more. And this is why:

The little planters are only good for starting seed and then you need to move them to bigger planters to mature. So, Ellie and I did some painting - I did the letters and tried my best to just let her do the rest! I got the idea to let Ellie paint pots from her friend, Mary Kate's, mom and thought it would be perfect for my hopefully flourishing herb garden! So far I've got Basil, Lavender and Oregano. Next to seed: Thyme, Rosemary, Dill, Cilantro, Chives and Fennel.

Finally, we've got quite a few birthday parties in one week, which means we've got to keep the cost low; but the present thoughtful. So, I thought I'd make (or decorate) canvas bags for all four girls - thank goodness there's no boys or that would throw a kink in the plan! Ellie got one for her birthday last year and we've used it to carry her books, toys, etc. whenever she comes to my office, we go to the doctor or wherever. I love passing down good gift ideas, so here's what I did. Hope they like them and get as much use out of them as we have!

Happy 4th!

2008-07-06T21:19:00.007-04:00

We had a great 4th of July this year. After a relaxing day, we ventured over to our great friend's - The McKee's - new house for a cookout and swimming. Then, we walked down the street to watch their neighborhood fireworks. It was a pretty good show and Ellie had been looking forward to it all day. She loves the fireworks. Apparently, she loved the moment so much that she was not shy to give Ryan plenty of hugs and back scratches during the show! I didn't take pictures this year; but Stephanie did and you can see them here. The little shirt Ellie has on was a dress last year:

Wow - she's grown! Look at the short hair!

What's in a Name?

2008-07-03T20:48:00.003-04:00

Until about a week ago, we thought we had the name of our next baby girl all set. Macie Elizabeth sounded like a great, cute name and it went with Ellie pretty well too. I'd had that name picked out for a couple of years and was so thrilled to be able to use it. That was until we re-evaluated what it would sound like as an adult - it's plenty cute for a girl; but as a woman? Everyone has their own set of criteria by which they pick out baby names. For some, you start with family names and determine whether to use any of those. If not, you may decide to let the husband choose the name if it's a boy and the wife if it's a girl or switch it the other way. Some people lean toward Biblical names while others pick names of modern-day famous people whom they admire. Some lean heavily on the meaning while others don't worry too much about it as long as the name is perfect. Do we like romantic or cutesie, Southern or ethnic such as Spanish or French. Should all of our children's names start with the same initial? Ugh!!! It really is quite a chore and many faithful couples end up dropping the conversation until they feel ready to talk about it again. After all - this is serious. This is how people will perceive our child. Will they be teased or given obvious nicknames? Will they be taken seriously as an adult? With so many things to consider, we have actually changed our new baby's name. And this is it! I am not one to be able to wait until the baby arrives - there's monogramming to be done! The new name is...

Aubrey Elizabeth Wolfe
We can't wait to meet her - and neither can Ellie!

A Chip Confession

2008-06-24T16:37:00.002-04:00

I'm not really sure why I thought it would be fun to reveal my family's fantasy with chips; but here it is! For some reason, right now we've got an exceptional number of bags of chips in the pantry - all different types! Brian and I love chips and since all of them seem to be removing the trans fats, we'll keep crunching!

Cutie Patootie

2008-06-24T16:32:00.003-04:00

In a quick afternoon - well, not as quick as I would have liked - I cranked out this cute little 3-tiered skirt for Ellie Bell with some duckie fabric that mom got last year. I plan to make a few more and maybe some for baby sister to wear next year. I also hope to recruit one of my friends with applique capabilities to applique some shirts to go with them. PS - no, I don't think the shirt she has on matches or the shoes; but she still looks cute nonetheless.

Swim Lessons, Part Two

2008-06-13T16:25:00.004-04:00

By the end of day three, I was ready to give up! Ellie was just not having it on this particular day and I felt hopeless for the sweet girl trying to teach her. I've got new respect for anyone who teaches little youngins something they've never tried. It takes a lot of patience and that's something God's still developing in me! I just expect it to happen and there's so much skill involved and practice and guess what?! They won't master everything we try to teach them and I need to be okay with that. Okay, so anyways, we went to my friend's house to swim after lessons that day and here's what happened. Please excuse the talking - I thought the camera wasn't picking up on it - but it exposes my impatience and maybe that was good for me to hear!

Do You Have a Banana Bread Recipe?

2008-06-13T16:04:00.003-04:00

I do now! I don't know about you; but every woman has to have a tried and true banana bread recipe and now I do. I don't know if there is one in my family; but it's never been passed down to me if so! The recipe below produced the most moist (is that how you say that) banana bread I've ever had. I omitted the nuts because I don't always like nuts in my bread and added golden raisins. For those ladies who have been in my small group for the last year and a half, you've got this recipe in the Feeding the Flock cookbook that Mama Marilyn gave us - thanks Mama!

Ingredients:
1 c white sugar 1 1/2 c all-purpose flour
1/2 c brown sugar 1 tsp baking powder
1/2 c oil (not olive) Dash salt
2 eggs 1 1/2 c ripe bananas (3 large, mashed)
4 Tbsp sour cream 1 tsp vanilla
1 tsp baking soda 1 c chopped pecans (optional - I substituted golden raisins)
1 Tbsp vinegar

In a large bowl, mix the first 4 ingredients. Combine soda and vinegar, then add sour cream. Sift together flour, baking powder and salt; add to batter. Work fast now! Add the mashed bananas, vanilla and nuts. Pour into a greased and floured bread pan or an 8x8x2 pan or 2 medium bread pans or 4 small loaf pans (how's that for selection!). Bake at 350 degrees for 35-45 minutes - my oven took longer so I covered it with foil so the top wouldn't burn while continuing to cook on the inside. Test the middle of the bread with a toothpick to see if done. Once done, let cook in pan on a wire rack for 10-20 minutes, then turn over and let it fall out.

Mmm...so good!

PS - let's all say a prayer for all those poor people fleeing and losing their homes in Iowa and other midwestern states due to the flooding. How desperate they must feel!

Swim Lessons, Part One

2008-06-10T17:32:00.006-04:00

Ellie received a certificate for private lessons at the YMCA as a Christmas gift last year, thanks to Grandma D and Grandpa T, so I couldn't wait for the summer to get here and to get her in those classes! Well, I think Ellie could have waited! I'm pretty sure this sentiment is echoed by all moms of preschoolers across the country each summer. Alas, the day came last Monday and I was ready with camera in hand. Here is what the big day brought (get ready for jittery camera work and many passersby!):

We'll Miss You, Dedaddy

2008-06-10T16:20:00.004-04:00

On May 17th, Martin Perrin, my dedaddy, passed away to join his Father in Heaven. Dedaddy was 95 years old! I wish we had been able to see him more over the years; but distance kept the trips to only once a year or so. He was such a wonderful, delightful man who loved God, country and family more than life itself. He came through the depression and served in WWII (on the USS Wisconsin) like many of our grandfathers - I do believe they were the greatest generation - so humble, loyal and patriotic. That image of our country is all but gone. I feel so honored to have two grandfathers who love(d) God, family and country as much as they. One memory I have of him is that he used to always say "Law, law"! This was basically a conversation filler for him and we thought it was so funny. I have never, ever heard anyone else say that. We grandkids would crack up every time he did! Another one is that he was pretty meticulous about keeping up the yard. Even at 94, he was doing all the yard work and trying to climb on the roof of the house to get the leaves out of the gutters! In the last few years, he would harvest these Mole Beans that were supposed to keep the moles away, I think. He would go down in the basement and shell pod after pod - and they were hard to shell! It would take forever; but it was rewarding to him. I appreciated his perseverance.

Ellie and I were able to go up for the funeral in Tennessee. We picked up my sister, Amy, on the way and traveled on up to meet mom, dad, brothers and the rest of the family. This is the first relative close to me who has died in my lifetime! I wasn't sure how I would take it, having never really experienced death that close. But, since it was somewhat expected, he was 95 years old and we know that he is now in heaven, my heart was at peace. Obviously I'm sad that he's not here anymore and I'm sad for Memaw that she's lost her beloved, I'm so thankful for the legacy he left behind. What a great man! Ellie actually did quite well too. We decided there wasn't going to be any sugar-coating it - the truth was the best thing to tell her - and she seemed to get it in her little 2 year old mind. We explained that sometimes people die and if they know Jesus, like Dedaddy did, they get to go to heaven and even though we won't see them anymore, they can see us. We also told her that was was probably talking to Abraham, David, Joshua and other people she's been learning about in the Bible.

It was so good to have her there to lighten the mood a little - okay, a lot. I think Memaw really benefited from her being there as well. All my cousins who are all grown now, loved on her like crazy. It really was a good weekend. Oh, I forgot to mention that since he was military, my uncle arranged a military service for him. That was really cool and very emotional. I'm so thankful for our faith that makes us unafraid in times of death because we know that there's more to this life and we'll see our loved ones again!

Summertime, Summertime, Sum-sum Summertime!

2008-06-10T15:45:00.003-04:00

Ah, the summer! I've always loved this break and thanks to having kids, I get to enjoy it once again! Although I'm still working, they have been gracious enough to let me work mostly from home - due to the high gas prices and no childcare for Ellie. This has allowed me to set a schedule for us, which we've both adapted to quite well, in which we have playtime, craft time, reading time, gym time, and nap time (I'm still trying to enforce this although it doesn't always work!). The nice thing is that I get to spend more time with her and we've both already spent a lot of time at the pool! I've enrolled her in a few camps and VBS's and will go into the office during those weeks; but all in all, I think it's going to be a great summer!

Of course, I've got some goals too like sewing more, getting Macie's room ready, purposefully getting up early to spend time praying and trying to simplify. Making all this work around still needing to be faithful to my job is a little challenging - sometimes I'd just like to play! - but I'm trying to learn to put time with God first and let him put everything else in place. There are some specific things I'm praying about this summer and would just like to work on my prayer life in general, so I'm doing this study call 'Give Me 40 Days' by Freeda Bower. I'm only on day 7; but it's been great so far. I also recently read, and plan to re-read, 'Breathe: Creating Space for God in a Hectic Life' by Keri Wyatt Kent. This one has a lot to do with Sabbath Simplicity and simplifying your life and that of your family's by only concentrating your time on things that God has purposed for you instead of getting wrapped up in busyness. Every woman should read this!

School's Out!

2008-06-10T15:31:00.007-04:00

Mrs. Janet, Ellie and Mrs. Bo

Ellie had such a great first year of school! She learned the whole alphabet, how to count and how to play with others. Her teachers always said she was a delight to their class and were sad to pass her on to new teachers next year. However, she'll still be at Wildwood, so we'll still see Mrs. Bo and Mrs. Janet quite a bit. I can't believe that in almost three short years, our little baby has already completed her first year of school - WOW!

Ellie and her friend, Mary Kate

It's A...

2008-06-10T15:07:00.004-04:00

Girl!
I'm sure she'll hate me later for displaying her girl parts like this; but oh well!

Ellie is so excited to have a baby sister!

I'm playing catch up now with my posts. So sorry to have been so long in updating:( We found out we're having a girl back at the beginning of May and we couldn't be more thrilled, although daddy's already thinking about paying for two weddings! Fortunately, we know plenty of people with two girls or more who can give us all kinds of advice. Macie Elizabeth is growing well and still due the end of September. We can't wait for Ellie to have a sister to play with!

It's a real, live baby!

2008-05-05T20:30:00.005-04:00

Tonight, while Brian was reading Ellie's Bible stories before bed, I could feel the baby moving quite a bit, so I asked Ellie if she wanted to try to feel it - duh! She and Brian both put their hands on my belly and felt it move a few times. We told her it could probably hear us talking and she could tell it something. So, in true Ellie fashion, she chose to tell the baby about...breakfast! This child loves breakfast as much as her mommy - I mean, this is one meal we don't miss. So, she told the baby that she eats raisin bran for breakfast and then proceeded to blow some pretty impressive raspberries on my belly. What a little cutie-pie!